Duration 10:43

My WORST Break Up Story (Animated)

by Mitch Manly

9 781 772 watched

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Published 17 Sep 2018

In this video, we look at how to get over a breakup. It’s almost inevitable that we all go through a breakup at some point in our lives, regardless if we are the ones initiating the break, or we are the ones getting broken up with, it still sucks either way. And it will make you feel terrible. In this video I share a story about a man who not only goes through a bad breakup, but he actually gets cheated. There are two ways you can choose to handle a breakup, you can let it ruin your life, or you can choose to use it as an opportunity to improve your self, and an opportunity to make your dreams comes true. I truely think this video will help you. Dating is not easy, and it’s not really something that we are taught in school. I hope this video helps you guys get over breakups.

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@MasculineMan6 years ago My goal with this channel is to serve you guys, and create videos that add value to your lives. So if you enjoyed this video, subscribe and hit the bell icon:
many more stories to come in the future! 7957
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@mulani59926 years ago No matter what anyone says, there' s noexcuse for cheating. It' s a disgusting, heartless, and scummy thing to do. It messes with a person' s heart and soul on such a deep level. 3257
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@jeffmarron38875 years ago No matter how many flaws someone might have, nobody deserves being cheated on. 2198
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@ymmar7325 years ago We were both happy for 6 years until she talked about her future plans and i realized. I wasnt even part of it. 1381
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@AP3x69174 years ago Acceptance is the hardest part. Accepting that the person you thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with doesn' t want the same thing, after years of commitment, is extremely difficult. 651
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@brandonholtz53094 years ago I dated a girl for over 3 years. When that relationship ended it nearly broke me. Worst breakup ever (it was my first) i cant even begin to imagine a 10 year relationship ending. Whole ass decade of your life. 1065
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@raygacy4 years ago My ex gf of 5 years have left me 6 days ago without any closure. I find this really useful for me. Thank you. 537
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@itstatter55855 years ago As soon as i heard the coming home early scenario i already knew. 6441
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@Gabriel-df1ex5 years ago " what did i do to cause this? "
that' s a very dangerous question. It justifies toxic behavior. It shifts the blame into the victim for the other person' s decisions. 211
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@christopherserino25695 years ago I never get jealous when i see my ex with someone else because my parents always taught me to give my used toys to the less fortunate. Always remember that friends. 2212
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@The.Doctor24 years ago Morale of the story: keep moving forward, until the very end. 119
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@maxb93155 years ago There' s no security in a relationship. It could all collapse at any time. 275
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@The_Platinum_Realist2 years ago Did i do anything to make her cheat on me?
thats a very flawed and dangerous way to advise people think. 49
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@djdirewolfe60796 years ago Basically dont let another person be your only source of happiness. You' ll just be hurt and disappointed, i promise. 2817
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@nahomagize60754 years ago This video actually changed my life. I cried uncontrollably after watching this video knowing that i reacted like ben. But later, i continued to work on . ...Expand 82
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@nannn6475 years ago " we should end our relationship and stay as friend because my mom really doesnt like you" after all these 9 years she gave me this lame excuse out of nowhere. 187
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@ugopisquano4 years ago Hello everyone, i dont know if someone will ever watch this video and this comment, but id like to share my little story: im 18 and, about a year ago id="hidden9", me and my ex-girlfriend broke up after 1, 5 beautiful years together. Now we dont talk anymore, even if we are in the same group of friends, and it still hurts to see her laughing with someone else while im everyday asking to myself what did i do wrong in our relationship. Also i dont anymore feel part of my historical group ive been hanging out with for 10+ years. I feel alone, anyway im trying to work hard and to study in order to enter university and to work as a personal trainer in the meantime (meanwhile i see other people having fun at the sea in instagram stories) and im confident about my future, im sure i will meet other people and friends and re-build my life. Sorry for my bad english, have a good day. ...Expand 191
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@usmanqureshi1115 years ago Jeff' s online bussiness was selling books and later he became jeff bezoz. 525
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@porksoda23424 years ago I love this and i think it' s really important. Uplifting yourself when you are alone after a breakup is the most important thing ever! 7
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@johnathanbredenkamp98756 years ago " he learned that he can actually come home early"
oh boy. 2556
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@_koolung_99135 years ago I have been in a really promising relationship of 2 years with my girlfriend. We got a couple tattoo of each other' s birth year, and we were planning . ...Expand 88
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@THECONDOR985 years ago My ex of 3 years and 6 months cheated on me too. We started dating in high school and always imagined how we would get married and live happily ever a . ...Expand 41
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@adnanl79522 years ago I watched this video when it came out 3 years ago and thought this would never happen to me. Guess what? It did and i am happy to say that 4 months since . ...Expand 25
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@havenarroway29485 years ago You seriously just blew the clouds out of my head and made me see so much clearer than i have in forever. Even after the passing of a loved one in recent . ...Expand 6
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@trackez093 years ago I saw this video almost exactly 2 years ago after a " breakafter another " breakwe go again. We are animals of habit. 22
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@WigWavv6 years ago Apparently youtube decided we are all watching this today. 618
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@armin388225 years ago The best thing that ever happend in my life is that i went trough a horrible break up in my early 20' s. Nothing can surprise ma anymore. Even the id="hidden15" and loving woman/man can really dissapoint you in the end. Fall in love, go for it but do not be naive. ...Expand 68
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@autumnblack63735 years ago Great video. I had been staying away from things that reminded me of my ex for a few months, and because i wanted something to make me cry, i watched this. . ...Expand 10
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@blueflame35314 years ago " i wanted to give hersee, that' s what happens when you value others over yourself. Be ruthless, remind them they live of you. 13
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@shelseavera25514 years ago I just got out of a really toxic relationship and this video brought me to tears. I can really relate to jeffs story of spending every afternoon wat id="hidden18"ching netflix and just being soo involved with his relationship just to have it all come crashing down. It hurts. But im going to use this to be successful. Your channel is a blessing, thank you. ...Expand 3
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@ProfYago4 years ago Hey bro, weach program do you use to make theses animations?
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@chesster4236 years ago Lesson of the story:
dont make your girl the center of your life. 8978
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@IzzoWingChun5 years ago 44 year old man here. Free advice to all you youngsters, i love you has as much weight in a womans words as a helium balloon on a perfect summer day. 1192
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@spooneater90015 years ago 1. Likes spontaneity
2. Very social
3. Gets
well there' s your problem right there. 137
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@tastythreesome4 years ago Hi, what editor do you use to edit videos?
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@thehumblechannel34414 years ago I am watching this video on day 1 of my breakup. This story relates to me so much because of the three ultimate words: im sorry. She said that her f id="hidden20"eeling has changed and she doesnt want to do this anymore, which is equivalent to her not attracted to me anymore. I am still in deep pain and thats why im taking a sick leave today to go out with my family, who has always been super supportive to me. But i will not blame her about how she ruined my life. She can break up with me and thats what she can do, but how i respond to that is what i can control, and i will control it so that instead of letting this ruin my life, i will use this as an opportunity to finally get out of my comfort zone and be who i really want to be - a motivated young man who will live a better and brighter life with a more beautiful and positive woman. ...Expand 3
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@mastermitser56934 years ago Never trust anyone. Being in arelationship is like giving someone a gun and telling them not to fire it. They will though.
just have fun and never get attached. 121
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@FlyingBeast0096 years ago Just broke up with my girlfriend
time to get rich. 4869
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@Allitche5 years ago Me and my boyfriend of 5 years just broke up, this is what i needed to hear. Actually teared up. Now i jsut need to get back on my feet, and work on myself. 8
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@aguyfromtheinternet8655 years ago " if you think " it would not happen to me" just wait until you get older"
this phrase made me hating a relationships for a few secs. 7
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@martin972644 years ago It is in your moments ofdecisionthat your destiny is shaped.
the ultimate power" 5
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@andrewcarter96374 years ago I cant thank you enough for this. Its such a great lesson to learn. Going through what those two are going through but i want to be like the latter guy . ...Expand 6
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@bootyluva69914 years ago The thumbnail hurts because of how relatable and real it is. 4
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@sasakiumiquema96086 years ago The best revenge is to be a better version of yourself. 1324
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@Emergencyguy1005 years ago I can relate my first breakup was bad i was ben. Now my second break up i' m jeff. I' m working, studying and training to become a firefighter! 14
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@slimskinny2 years ago When they give you the i need space, we need a break, or we are different people right. They have already found someone else. Wish them the worst in their life and move on. 1
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@jehad62244 years ago Guys just an advice from me and sorry for having a broken language, first dont over spoil your girl never, dont make promises, be mysterious, dont say . ...Expand 4
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@wilsonbethlehem31015 years ago Time will heals everything. Thanks for reminding my past & how long i take to pick up myself & move on. 6
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@Saveara.4 years ago Guys just love urself. Focus and nourish yourself. If your partner is loyal, he/she ll stay. If not, u got u. Stay strong. 2
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@faiznordin81574 years ago This is actually true. After i broke up with my girlfriend, i was devastated. So i started working on my side hustle to make more money so i can distract myself. It was heartbreaking, but i know its a blessing in disguise. 3
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@marcoasnaghi17835 years ago This is more or less the same thing that happened to me in the last two weeks.
now i have to react and to decide to act like jeff.
it' s thank you for the video and for the story!. ...Expand 1
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@TinaTina-ze7kx4 years ago Hey mitch manly, could youplease tell me you use which software to make videos?
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@antilaw99114 years ago We both 56. Both put on weight. Saw that she used to be much larger prior to me. I still loved her and never thought one second of ever leaving her. 5
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@fulmato34404 years ago @mitch manly i am very inspired by your videos, what i like the most is the stories. They are very challenging and very relatable,
what do you ue to create the animations?
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@encikpanda31696 years ago Plot twist: jeff is the man whos on the bed with ben' s girlfriend. 6855
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@TM9515 years ago My gf broke up with me yesterday and this really helped me thanks! 32
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@brandonholtz53094 years ago Im on jeffs path rn and i can tell you it gets better. It takes a lot of work and will power to overcome to pain and hurt but it will work. 1
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@Faint79034 years ago My best friend betrayed me recently. I cried 12 times in 5 days and im on medication that prevents me from crying. 6
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@30bert5 years ago Hey man, this is very inspiring. It' s the best content i' ve seen so far since my break up. Thanks! 1
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@fitnesssingh52654 years ago Don' t let anybody ruien your productive life merely because somebody betrayal you. Take this betrayal as a constant source of motivation and see the . ...Expand 2
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@Ureyeuh6 years ago 27 year old guy here. Just got left by my gf of 6 years. Had proposal plans and all. It can and will happen to you if you aren' t careful, and even the careful ones will still get left somehow. It' s life. 15526
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@XY-cb1uq5 years ago Great video! But which software do you use to make it? 1
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@JustMoneyish7 months ago I watched this video like 4-5 years ago almost every other day because i was so hurt and couldnt believe this happened to me. She started acting funny t . ...Expand
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@jaden20144 years ago This is my worst fear in a relationship. 5
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@villagechillershorror2283 years ago 13 years of what i thought was perfect marriage. Just found out she had been living a double life with another man the entire time. It' s an unreal kind of pain. 6
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@user-vz1uj4ty6q4 years ago I think most people would act like ben. Jeff is the one we want to be. 6
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@arunb32736 years ago Moral: if you' re single, nobody can break you. 3984
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@HelpWithHeartbreak5 years ago Taking control of your response to adversity is incredibly empowering. What an incredibly well-done video. Thanks for sharing!
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@prabunaveen95855 years ago Thank you so much for making this video. It really helped me to think about my future rather than thinking about my ex. Thanks alot.
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@mikeymorrison2724 years ago I just turned 20 early this month. Back in late april my girlfriend broke up with me because a lot of past trauma i haven' t dealt with was too much . ...Expand 3
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@habs98475 years ago Okay im just saying, this really changed my outlook on life, i realized while watching this because i was sad, i realized whats the point of me being sad . ...Expand 2
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@unknowndesi_072 years ago Definition of the saying everything happens for a good reason. 1
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@alienantal5 years ago People. Just don' t cheat on your partner, have respect for them and above all for yourself. If you feel like you' re losing attraction to your . ...Expand 660
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@awesomelywe4 years ago My ex of 2 years cheated with her guitarist, her new bandmate from her school while i was serving the army. Found shes been building chemistry for 3 m . ...Expand 1
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@lilstrats9444 years ago Ben: you need to leave.
jeff: my name is jeff. 3
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@kishlankashire59484 years ago Could you tell me how you make videos? The software you use? It looks really cool. I would also like to know how hard it is to make these animations. Thanks!
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@Check0Point3 years ago I' m buying a planner and going to start planning my day and work on my business and maintain a healthy diet and exercise routine. 5
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@no1wrench5 years ago My wife of 4 years cheated on me last thursday. I found out today. From the man' s wife. This helped. Thankyou. 1653
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@Delta_Aves5 years ago . This is one of those excerpts that seems romantic and heartbreaking, until you look deeper and see some problems with it.
"I told her that I would give her everything that she wanted." - A great relationship isn't about giving someone what they want, but rather showing them what they need. Not to say one should never give their loved one what they want, but it should have a deeper reason too. Out of love? Sure.
"I wanted to give her everything." - What does that really mean? You gonna buy the whole world for her? The whole universe? Will that be enough to make her happy? It's one of those abstract concepts that people say when they can't figure out what they really want. That's where communication comes in. It doesn't always fix everything, but it's a step in the right direction.
"This woman ruined my life." - This is more along the lines of an abusive relationship, where one's life and emotional state is, in fact, destroyed by their manipulative and controlling significant other. Infidelity, while bad in its own right, is tame compared to how bad it can be. It ruins a relationship/marriage, but never someone's life, unless they let it. .. ...Expand 5
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@arsenal71745 years ago Im constantly battling with myself because i dont want to be lonely but i dont want to be heartbroken again. 1
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@depressmenotcandles47874 years ago This is awesome! Great work! I love your animated videos, which one do you use?
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@pratikthorat34805 years ago Im happy that i have never had a relationship and after this story ill stay away from this. 12
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@genocidecreep66624 years ago This is why i don' t trust anyone even if they are my friends because even people who are closest to you can ruin your life. 2
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@mariag28465 years ago Bruh if you lose interest in someone then the least you can do is tell them. Not cheat on them. Tf. And you don' t need to change yourself for anyone. 1326
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@DrLinMan4 years ago Great video! May i know what software you used to produce the animation? Thanks!
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@RelatablewithStephanieMichele5 years ago Love your work! Thank you for doing what you do. I would love to hear your backstory. Let' s talk having you be a guest on my show. 3
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@q8a54 years ago Im just getting to understand thatin its traditional meaning doesn' t really mean much, having it is absolutely great but it alone is not enough to build a life around. 3
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@user-te2if3hg9e5 years ago How marvellous this video was. In my opinion the most powerful revenge from the one that breaks your heart is be as much happy as you can be after her or him.
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@rika861003 years ago It was meant for me to watch this video! Its time to work on myself & work on self love. My ex left me for someone else even though he denies it. T . ...Expand 2
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@lemmonsinmyeyes6 years ago No excuse for infidelity. Not happy? Leave. Never cheat. Very simple. 815
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@ankitajamwal46305 years ago I' m doing the second part after my break up. Self care and self love and i' m even experiencing positive changes. 4
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@andrewstar99044 years ago Thank you very much. I had the very same story (age, dreams, job, relationship status, as in it' s like this animation pictured what really happened . ...Expand 1
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@rumanmk78063 years ago 10 years is a long time to wait i have been through horrible relationships finally i' m getting married with someone i love the best healer in life is to accept and move on. 2
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@9_drip179last year My eyes, my soul, my beyond, i have seen this video before, i cant believe it. It was so beautiful.
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@elisendadomenjo32234 years ago Then their relationship was toxic, partners are supposed to be there for each other with their own independence while they grow and create an empire. 55
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@daisyisawesome83396 years ago Cheating is never justified. If you lost attraction to someone, you leave them. 213
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@The_Wizard85 years ago Thank you for this video i' ve done jeff choice and now i' m fully motivated to achieve my wildest dreams. 2
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@ziohara58725 years ago Thank you so much! This is a great eye opener for me. 2